"You're too pretty to [FILL IN THE BLANK]."
No.3 “你太漂亮了，所以不要這樣……做”

“A friend of mine encountered this pretty recently when a man came up to her after a show she was on and told her she was too pretty to use explicit language during her act. Unfortunately, this sort of comment crops up more than you'd think, as well as the notion that women can't be both ‘pretty and funny.’ This sort of backhanded compliment is guaranteed to incite rage in the recipient because, shocker, I don’t like being told what I can and can't do because of the way society may perceive me. And no, I’m not too pretty to kick your ass.”
-Nikki Black, comedian, Philadelphia, PA
“我的一個(gè)朋友前不久遭遇了這么一件事：一個(gè)男人在她演出結(jié)束后對(duì)她說，她太漂亮了，不該在臺(tái)上使用那樣露骨的語言。不幸的是，這樣的評(píng)論可不少見，好像女性絕對(duì)不能‘既漂亮又有趣’一樣。這樣諷刺挖苦的恭維話真的很讓人不爽，因?yàn)槲也幌矚g別人按照外界的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)來告訴我可以怎樣和不可以怎樣。對(duì)，我很漂亮，但我一樣可以揍你！”
——喜劇演員兼項(xiàng)目管理員尼基·布萊克，來自費(fèi)城

"You wanna watch a movie?"
No.4 “你想看部電影嗎？”

“I love movies. But come on, we all know what that means! 'You wanna watch a movie?' translates to 'Let’s bone.' Most sentences uttered by men can be translated to 'You wanna f---?' Sure, let’s bone but you said we could watch my favorite movie! You can't ask a movie lover to watch a movie unless you plan on finishing the flick. You better be a real good fella if you're going to interrupt Good Fellas.”
-Jessimae Peluso, comedian and star of MTV’s Girl Code
“我確實(shí)喜歡看電影。但是，我們都知道那是什么意思。‘你想看部電影嗎？’就是‘你想約炮嗎？’其實(shí)男人很多話都有那樣的意思。你明明是那個(gè)意思，卻偏要說‘我們看部喜歡的電影吧’。除非你真的打算好好把電影看完，否則你絕不能對(duì)一個(gè)電影愛好者提出去看電影。如果你想在看《好家伙》的時(shí)候中途離開，那么你最好自己是個(gè)真正的好家伙。
——喜劇演員杰西米·佩魯索，MTV連續(xù)劇《女孩密碼》演員

“You look tired.”
No.5 “你看起來很累。”

“This makes me irate! (And I never say that word!) This is never okay! No one ever wants to hear that, especially a girl. We already have enough problems trying to keep things sucked and tucked in all day let alone you telling us we look like we didn't sleep well. Yeah, yeah, I am tired. I'm busy walking my dogs, writing a book, touring the country, putting on acrobatic lingerie, and posing for you all while you make yogurt commercials. ”
-Jessimae Peluso
“這句話真的讓我很不爽（我才不說這樣的話）！這根本就很讓人討厭。沒有人想聽到這話，特別是女孩。我們整天忙這忙那已經(jīng)夠了，不用你來提醒我們的氣色有多差。我承認(rèn)我很累。我忙著遛狗，忙著寫書，忙著旅游，忙著穿雜技服，在你拍攝酸奶廣告的時(shí)候，我還得忙著給你當(dāng)模特。”
——杰西米·佩魯索