Friends like this always seem to be talking about their accomplishments. They never think to ask about you or your life, and it seems like they don’t really care. Friends like this are harmful to your life because they leave you feeling like you are unimportant.
這類朋友總想談?wù)撟约旱某删汀Ｋ麄儚牟幌胫鴨枂柲愫湍愕纳睿瑢?duì)此似乎根本不在意。這種朋友“有毒”，因?yàn)樗麄冏屇愀杏X自己不重要。

7. They don’t care enough to keep in touch
7. 他們對(duì)保持聯(lián)絡(luò)不太在意

Life is complicated. It’s important to understand that sometimes people can’t always call or talk to you but they are thinking of you. However, relationships get toxic when the other person isn’t thinking of you and makes no attempt to keep in contact. You find yourself being the only one reaching out, while they seem uninterested in maintaining the relationship. This is toxic because to have a healthy life you should engage in mutually fulfilling relationships with people who care about you as much as you care about them.
生活很復(fù)雜。有時(shí)候人們不能總給你打電話或者和你交談，但他們心里想著你，要理解這一點(diǎn)。然而，當(dāng)朋友并沒想著你，也沒有嘗試保持聯(lián)絡(luò)。這段友情就“有毒”了。你發(fā)現(xiàn)只有自己總是去聯(lián)絡(luò)朋友，而朋友對(duì)保持友誼沒興趣。這種友誼“有毒”，因?yàn)闉榱私】瞪睿銘?yīng)該融入令雙方滿足的友誼，你關(guān)心朋友，朋友也要關(guān)心你。

8. They never consider your feelings
8. 他們從不考慮你的感受

Friends who never consider how their actions or words affect you are toxic to be around. They do things to benefit themselves even if it means your feelings are being compromised. It’s unhealthy to have people like this in your life because you should surround yourself with people who don’t better themselves at the expense of others.
有些“有毒”朋友從不會(huì)考慮到他們的行為或言語會(huì)影響到你。他們做有利于自己的事情，即使這意味著你的感情會(huì)因此受傷。有這樣的朋友對(duì)你來說不健康，因?yàn)榕笥巡粦?yīng)該損人以利己。

9. They pressure you to do things you don’t want to do
9. 他們迫使你做不想做的事

When you’re around them, they pressure you into doing things you aren’t comfortable and make you feel like a loser when you don’t do them. It’s good to be around people who encourage you to try new things but it becomes toxic when they are forcing you to do things. You should be encouraged but not forced to try new things and move out of your comfort zone. Being forced to do anything has dire consequences that makes relationships like this toxic.
當(dāng)你和“有毒”朋友在一起，他們總是迫使你做一些讓你感到不快，或者不去做就感覺很失敗的事情。結(jié)交鼓勵(lì)你嘗試新鮮事物的朋友對(duì)你有好處，但當(dāng)他們迫使你做這些時(shí)就“有毒”了。朋友應(yīng)該鼓勵(lì)你嘗試新鮮事物，而不是迫使你這樣做，讓你感到不快。被迫使做事有不良后果，讓友誼變得“有毒”。

10. They aren’t willing to change
10. 他們不愿意改變

Human beings are constantly changing. Change is important in relationships. To maintain relationships and grow as people you should be able to change and adapt to each other to an extent that is beneficial to both of you. Friends who are set in their ways, which may not necessarily be right, and don’t attempt to change and grow are toxic to your life.
人們總在改變。改變對(duì)友誼很重要。為了維護(hù)友誼和個(gè)人成長，你應(yīng)該有能力改變，并互相適應(yīng)，以達(dá)到對(duì)你和朋友都有利的程度。固步自封未必正確，那些不愿嘗試改變和成長的是“有毒”朋友。

英文來源：lifehack.org
翻譯&編審：yaning