5. Be romantic. 要浪漫。
The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles and chocolate) can only go so far. Think about what really gets that special someone excited. Recognize what makes her unique, and find/do things for them that only they would appreciate. What are her quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions and fantasies? Whenever she's shopping, talking, or watching a movie, what makes her eyes light up? Pay attention! Being romantic means acknowledging how special a person is, and that means demonstrating that you know--better than anyone else in the world--what makes her unique.
浪漫的代表性事物都老套無比，它們（玫瑰啊、燭光啊、巧克力什么的）不會幫你在玩浪漫的路上走得更遠。好好想想怎么才能真正點燃你的她。你得學會發現使她的獨特之處，為她找出只有她能欣賞的東西。什么是她特別的（或者秘密的）的興趣；什么使她著魔；什么讓她成天做著白日夢？在她購物、聊天、看電影時，什么東西叫她雙眼放光？你得注意這些！浪漫就是承認一個人是特別的。浪漫意味著你懂她，比別人都懂，懂她與眾不同。
6. Break the touch barrier. 碰碰她，別害怕。
There are several ways to touch a girl without being sleazy. Hold her coat while she puts it on. Offer her your hand when she's stepping on an uneven surface. Hold out your elbow so she can link arms with you as you walk together. Hold out your hand so you can lead her through a crowd. Rub her hands when they're cold. These are all polite ways to get a little closer without being creepy. Still, if you see any signs of discomfort, stop! Otherwise, she'll probably enjoy the affection.
我們有很多法子能叫咱正大光明毫不猥瑣的碰一個女孩。她穿衣服時，為她擎著外套；在她走顛簸路時，伸出你紳士的手；一起走時，為她留一個臂彎，這樣她才好挽著你。還有，你能勇敢的牽著她在人群中開路，你能冷天幫她搓手。這些都能讓你倆走得更近，卻不會惹她生厭。當然了，要是察覺她對身體接觸感到別扭，你還是住手為妙。否則，她就是很享受這親密關系了。
7. Compliment her. 表揚她。
If you really like this girl, you probably appreciate a lot of things about her. Why not let her know? If anything is different or new (her hairstyle, nail polish color, shirt), make note of it. The more unique the compliment, the better received it will be, unless she's shallow. Most girls like being complimented on something that makes them distinct, not something that plenty of other girls have. If you compliment her appearance, try to be original. Better yet, compliment her personality or skills.
你若真喜歡她，你會喜歡她的許多地方，為什么不叫她知道呢？如果她有了小小的變化或新鮮之處（發型啦，指甲油啦，襯衫啦），你得夸一夸。你的贊美越獨特，效果越好，除非她很膚淺。大部分女孩子都喜歡那些讓他們覺著自己與眾不同的贊美，而不是什么一堆一堆的女孩兒都有的特點。如果你想表揚她的外表，盡量原創。如果你會贊揚她的性格或者才能就更好了。
8. Make her laugh. 逗她開心叫她笑
Telling jokes or funny stories is the classic way to make a person laugh, but not the only one. Find out which are her favorite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms. Watch them with her. Be bold and think of some antics that'll make her laugh. Tell her to dare you to do something, then do it (as long as it's not dangerous or illegal, of course).
講笑話或者趣聞軼事無疑是經典的逗樂方法，不過絕不是只有這些辦法。找出她最喜歡的喜劇、搞笑片或者肥皂劇，陪她看。要勇敢點，想個滑稽的動作逗她開心。讓她準你做些傻事，然后當真去做（當然啦，既不能危險也不能違法~）。
9. Ask her out. 約她出來。
Invite her to go somewhere or do something with you--make sure it's something that you're both interested in. If you want, show her your world. Bring her somewhere that you feel comfortable and preferably, where you have or do something that you're proud of. Or, express interest in seeing her world. Is she a musician? Ask if you can see her perform. Is she a mathematician? Ask to read her report or thesis. Or, just go out for lunch or a cup of coffee and get to know her better.
約她一起去什么地方，或者約她和你一起做些事——確保你倆對此都有興趣。如果你想的話，向她展示你的世界。帶她去個你覺著舒服并且愛去的地方，講給她在那里你擁有或做過的讓你引以為豪的事。或者，你讓她知道你對她的世界感興趣。比方說她是個音樂家，那么你問問她許不許你去看她的演出。如果她是搞數學的，向她要她的研究報告和理論讀讀。或者，簡單的，你只需要請她吃個晚餐喝杯咖啡什么的，這樣你也能了解她多一點。
（來源：天星教育網 實習生許雅寧 英語點津Yvonne編輯）
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