Once they reach a certain age, lots of women find motherhood exhausting, but not Brooklyn-based Nina Keneally. The 63-year-old still has lots of ‘mothering skills’ that she’s actually more than happy to rent out through a unique service called ‘NeedAMom’. Her motto is “When you need a mom… Just not YOUR mom.”
許多女性到一定年齡后，會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)自身母性已經(jīng)耗盡。但紐約布魯克林的尼娜?吉妮莉可不是這樣。今年63歲的她仍身負(fù)多種“母愛技能”，而且更樂于通過特有的“NeedAMom”服務(wù)出租出去。她的名言是“當(dāng)你需要媽媽……但不是親媽的時(shí)候”。

A former theatrical producer and drug-rehab counselor from Connecticut, Nina now spends all her time using her motherhood experience and her associate degree in counselling to help millennials in New York. For $40 an hour plus expenses, Nina will listen to all your problems, offer advice (free from ‘I told you so’), help you plan and shop for a dinner party, sew your buttons back on, bake you a cake, and do all sorts of other things a real mother might do. She’ll even buy and wrap a present for your actual mother.
尼娜曾經(jīng)是一名戲劇制作人、一位戒毒顧問，而如今她憑借著做母親的經(jīng)驗(yàn)和準(zhǔn)心理咨詢學(xué)士學(xué)位，全身心為紐約的千禧一代提供幫助。只需每小時(shí)40美元（再加上其他費(fèi)用），尼娜會(huì)傾聽你的所有問題、為你提供建議（但絕不會(huì)出現(xiàn)“我告訴過你”之類的話語）、幫你籌劃晚宴并購買相關(guān)物品、給你縫扣子、烤蛋糕，以及任何親媽可能做的其他事情。她甚至?xí)o你親媽買禮物，并打好包裝。

Nina and her husband moved to Bushwick, Brooklyn, from Connecticut two years ago, after 30-odd years of raising their own two sons. And she realised early on that young adults back home were different in many ways. “Connecticut millennials have other goals – it’s all about jobs, houses, permanent relationships,” she said. “They go into almost a young middle age. Here, it’s a more bohemian, artistic lifestyle.” But more freedom also leads to more problems, and Nina often found herself counselling millennials who reached out to her in yoga studios and cafes.
在花費(fèi)30多年將兩個(gè)兒子撫養(yǎng)成人后，兩年前尼娜和她的丈夫從康涅狄克州搬到紐約布魯克林的布什威克。她很早就意識(shí)到老家年輕人在很多方面的不同。“在康涅狄克州，千禧一代有不同的目標(biāo)——都與工作、房子、人際關(guān)系有關(guān)”，她說道。“他們幾乎算得上年輕的中年人。而在這里，人們走的是放蕩不羈的藝術(shù)風(fēng)格”。但自由越大問題也越多，尼娜經(jīng)常會(huì)輔導(dǎo)瑜伽室、咖啡館里認(rèn)識(shí)的千禧一代。

“As I started to live in the neighborhood, do yoga and frequent coffee shops, I’ve noticed that a lot of young people in the neighborhood wanted to talk to me about what was going on in their lives,” she told Bushwick Daily. Like this one man who was upset over losing a job and ended up pouring his heart out to Nina over a cup of coffee. She ended up rewriting his resume. Soon, so many young people were approaching her that Nina realised she could really help them by being a mother-figure in their lives. And that’s how NeedAMom was born. It’s a fairly new business and she’s had about six clients so far, all from Bushwick.
“我住進(jìn)小區(qū)后，做瑜伽、頻繁出入咖啡店。我注意到鄰近的許多年輕人喜歡和我談?wù)勊麄兊纳睢保颉恫际餐巳請(qǐng)?bào)》講到。一個(gè)因?yàn)槭I(yè)而沮喪的年輕人和尼娜一邊喝著咖啡，一邊傾訴內(nèi)心的苦惱。最后，她給這個(gè)年輕人重寫了簡(jiǎn)歷。很快，許多年輕人來找她。尼娜想到，自己可以以母親的形象幫助他們。而這就是NeedAMom的起源。這是一項(xiàng)新服務(wù)。到目前為止尼娜共有6名客戶，均來自布什威克。

Nina’s biggest ESP is perhaps her unconditional empathy. “I’m not judgmental about anybody’s life choices; I don’t compare them to their brothers and sisters,” she said. “I have a therapeutic background, although I’m not a therapist. I can talk you through it but if you have a serious problem, I have a list of resources and can send you to a doctor or a specialist.”
無條件的感同身受可能是尼娜最強(qiáng)大的超感官知覺。“我不會(huì)判斷任何人生活選擇的對(duì)錯(cuò)，不將他們與兄弟姐妹做比較”，她說。“盡管我不是治療師，但我有心理治療教育背景。我可以通過聊天幫你解開心結(jié)。但如果問題太嚴(yán)重，我這里有各種資源，可以送你去看醫(yī)生或?qū)＜摇！?/p>

“All the friends and people around me are the same age, and shrinks are just kinda impersonal,” said 34-year-old Natalie Chan, who sees Nina once a week after their Thursday yoga class. “She doesn’t judge. She’s just kinda, like, smiles and says, ‘Stop doing that.’ She’ll never say, ‘You’re stupid.’”
“朋友和身邊的人都年齡相仿，而精神病學(xué)家則有點(diǎn)不近人情，”現(xiàn)年34歲的娜塔莉?陳說道。每周四瑜伽課后，她都會(huì)和尼娜見一次面。”她不會(huì)判定你的對(duì)錯(cuò)。她只會(huì)微笑著，告訴你‘別再那么做了’。她從來不說，‘你真蠢’”。

Nina doesn’t have a fixed price list yet, so for now, everything she does for you will cost $40 an hour, right from bringing you chicken soup when you’re sick to watching a movie with you. But she draws the line at cleaning – “Don’t expect me to clean your closet or do your laundry,” she says. “I’m not your maid!”
由于目前還沒有固定的價(jià)目表，因此尼娜的任何服務(wù)價(jià)錢都是40美元/小時(shí)，從為病床上的你端來雞湯到陪你看電影。但對(duì)于打掃衛(wèi)生她一概謝絕—— “別想我給你打掃壁櫥、洗衣服，我可不是女仆！”

Vocabulary

associate degree: 美國大學(xué)修滿二年課程的肄業(yè)證書
bohemian: 放蕩不羈的
shrink: 精神病醫(yī)生
impersonal: 沒有人情味的

英文來源：www.odditycentral.com
譯者：趙德岷
審校&編輯：丹妮